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LaTia's World

Wishing on a star...

Good Day...
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Well well-  As always, there has been a lapse in time between posts. Real posts.

Updates?

Job- Kaplan... doing well and liking it very much!

Car- Finally fixed after 3 months of being out of commission... thanks Grandma!

GF- The one and only love of my life... My Brandy Bear

And it's summer. Chicago Pride is coming up at the end of the month. Excited am I? YES! I have friends coming from Iowa (Joy and Sarah), from Detriot (Brandy, Melissa), and back home.. SHAWN! It'll be a huge group of us, plus Dean, Karen and Sandra so,  it should be a WAY better time than it was last year. This past weekend was Midsomerfest, which as always is AMAZING! I actually had a lot fo fun. Hung out with my Boi Toiz, and my sis and her gf. Went both days and had tons of fun. Visited Detriot pride last weekend, which was a blast too! Um, I may be performing at Pridefest... fun fun! I quite Lane Bryant for now (surprise surprise), yeah life is tugging along quite well for me at this point. I could complain about how far away my gf is and how I miss her day and night, how the bills keep piling up, or how the Calendar says June, but the weather feels like March... but I choose to focus on the Positive. I mean, My gf and I get to see each other at least once a month, so thats always a treat to look foward to, I am doing what I need to do to handle my debt, and the weather could be a lot worse. Tho if it rains on Pride, I might cry and punch somebody. Well, that is all... til next time...

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I am sleepy... its 12:34am... 1234 heh. I  should be sleep. Excited about Detroit pride and visiting my gf. Lovin' Kaplan and life. Thanks Grandma! G'night.

Iowa legalizes gay marriage!
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I'm moving back to AMES! Whose coming with me?!


Iowa high court legalizes gay marriage in state


Laura Fefchak, right, and Nancy Robinson, center, of Urbandale, Iowa, react to AP – Laura Fefchak, right, and Nancy Robinson, center, of Urbandale, Iowa, react to the ruling from the Iowa …

DES MOINES, Iowa – Iowa's Supreme Court legalized gay marriage Friday in a unanimous and emphatic decision that makes Iowa the third state — and the first in the nation's heartland — to allow same-sex couples to wed.

In its decision, the high court upheld a lower court's ruling that found a state law restricting marriage to between a man and woman violated Iowa's constitution.

"We are firmly convinced the exclusion of gay and lesbian people from the institution of civil marriage does not substantially further any important governmental objective," the Supreme Court wrote in its decision. "The Legislature has excluded a historically disfavored class of persons from a supremely important civil institution without a constitutionally sufficient justification."

The ruling set off celebration among the state's gay-marriage proponents.

"Iowa is about justice, and that's what happened here today," said Laura Fefchak, who was hosting a verdict party in the Des Moines suburb of Urbandale with partner of 13 years, Nancy Robinson.

Robinson added: "To tell the truth, I didn't think I'd see this day."

Richard Socarides, an attorney and former senior adviser on gay rights to President Clinton, said the ruling carries extra significance coming from Iowa.

"It's a big win because, coming from Iowa, it represents the mainstreaming of gay marriage. And it shows that despite attempts stop gay marriage through right-wing ballot initiatives, like in California, the courts will continue to support the case for equal rights for gays," he said.

Its opponents were equally dismayed.

"I would say the mood is one of mourning right now in a lot of ways, and yet the first thing we did after internalizing the decision was to walk across the street and begin the process of lobbying our legislators to let the people of Iowa vote," said Bryan English, spokesman for the conservative group the Iowa Family Policy Center.

"This is an issue that will define (lawmakers') leadership. This is not a side issue."

The Rev. Keith Ratliff Sr., pastor at the Maple Street Baptist Church in Des Moines, went to the Supreme Court building to hear of the decision.

"It's a perversion and it opens the door to more perversions," Ratliff said. "What's next?"

Technically, the decision will take about 21 days to be considered final and a request for a rehearing could be filed within that period.

But Polk County Attorney John Sarcone said his office will not ask for a rehearing, meaning the court's decision should take effect after that three-week period.

"Our Supreme Court has decided it, and they make the decision as to what the law is and we follow Supreme Court decisions," Sarcone said. "This is not a personal thing. We have an obligation to the law to defend the recorder, and that's what we do."

That means it will be at least several weeks before gay and lesbian couples can seek marriage licenses.

Sarcone said gay marriage opponents can't appeal the case at the state or federal level because they were not party to the lawsuit and no federal issue was raised in the case.

Opponents can try and persuade Iowa lawmakers to address the issue, but state Senate Majority Leader Mike Gronstal, D-Council Bluffs, said it's "exceedingly unlikely" gay marriage legislation will be brought up this session, expected to end within weeks. He also said he's "not inclined to call up a constitutional amendment," during next year's session.

The case had been working its way through Iowa's court system since 2005 when Lambda Legal, a New York-based gay rights organization, filed a lawsuit on behalf of six gay and lesbian Iowa couples who were denied marriage licenses. Some of their children are also listed as plaintiffs.

The suit named then-Polk County recorder and registrar Timothy Brien.

The state Supreme Court's ruling upheld an August 2007 decision by Polk County District Court Judge Robert Hanson, who found that a state law allowing marriage only between a man and a woman violates the state's constitutional rights of equal protection.

The Polk County attorney's office, arguing on behalf of Brien, claimed that Hanson's ruling violates the separation of powers and said the issue should be left to the Legislature.

Lambda Legal planned to comment on the ruling later Friday. A request for comment from the Polk County attorney's office wasn't immediately returned.

Gov. Chet Culver, a Democrat, said the decision addresses a complicated and emotional issue.

"The next responsible step is to thoroughly review this decision, which I am doing with my legal counsel and the attorney general, before reacting to what it means for Iowa," Culver said in a statement.

Around the nation, only Massachusetts and Connecticut permit same-sex marriage. California, which briefly allowed gay marriage before a voter initiative in November repealed it, allows domestic partnerships.

New Jersey, New Hampshire and Vermont also offer civil unions, which provide many of the same rights that come with marriage. New York recognizes same-sex marriages performed elsewhere, and legislators there and in New Jersey are weighing whether to offer marriage. A bill that would legalize same-sex marriage in Vermont has cleared the Legislature but may be vetoed by the governor.

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Associated Press writers Marco Santana, Melanie S. Welte, Michael Crumb and Mike Glover in Des Moines, and Nigel Duara in Urbandale contributed to this report.

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On the Net:

Iowa Supreme Court: http://www.judicial.state.ia.us/

Lambda Legal: http://www.lambdalegal.org/


Caution your heart...
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Today's Horoscope for 11/25/08

Daily Singles:

As tempting as it may be to fall for someone new, don't get involved with stuff you are unsure of. Take the time to get to know this person better before you invest too much of yourself. Be careful with your heart.


Lesbians... and straight girls..
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Riddle me this Batman...

Why do some lesbians love straight women? Just curious...

I was talking to a friend of mine last night and she told me that she's only dated 1 lesbian, all the rest have been "straight" girls. What is the allure? The attraction? What is it about straight girls that make some lesbians (in my experience the more butch lesbians) choose them over the femme lesbians? There are plenty of femme lesbians, or even true bisexuals, that like girls and are not confused about it. I mean I get that some women are going through that coming out transition, but... most of these so called "straight" women who are curious and who mess around with lesbians just for the experience end up back with men anyway. And these lesbians end up with a broken heart time and time again? Does this really all go back to these lesbians liking the percieved competition they have with the straight male by vying for the attention of girls? So is it about the guy and not really about the women at all? Is it the "allure" of turing a straight girl out? Someone please answer this for me because I am so lost...

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 Quick update:

Teresa called me, we made amends for now. Hopefully for good. Fun times drunk on a beach at night.

I just had a phone interview with Northwestern, we'll see what happens!

Dinner date with the fantas tonight! Excited!

New layout! Even more excited.

I kissed a girl and she liked it... she even asked me to go  home with her. But I didn't. Where are my Ho tendencies when I need them?

Life as of 7.15.08
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So alot has happened as always...

I recently got laid off from my job. It's okay, I wasn't tied to the job per se, but it does suck being jobless and looking for a job is a full time job in and of itself. So, if anyone got the hook up, let me know!

Other news, I kinda broke ties with Teresa, she just doesn't know it. I totally deleted her from my phone so even if I wanted to, I couldn't contact her. It had to be that way for varying reasons. I know shes been busy lately and all but the truth is, i'm never too busy for her and I expect the same respect back. She fed me a lot of excuses yesterday, but I just listened. Was very quiet for a while. And when the phone convo ended, so did our friendship. I made that choice. Actually... she made that choice. If she chooses to contact me, its on her, I can't be the only one in this friendship.

In other news I met this cool chick that I hope to hang out with sometime. I went to startgaze by myself for the first time in a long time. I wasn't sure what the evening would hold, but it was fun. I ended up randomly talking to this girl for hours, then gave her a ride home. I don't have her number, she has mine. If she calls great, if she doesn't... at least we have decent meaningful convo that night. I enjoyed it and it made coming back to stargaze that much more fun.

Um, otherwise, I still live with Jen. If I don't get a job out of state, then i'll renew my lease. This is the first time I will have lived in an apt for more than a year since moving back to chicago after college. So thats cool. Uh, other cast members in my life are doing well. Erin (crazy stalker ex) got it together finally and doesn't stalk me anymore. Although she wants me back... i dont fully trust that... but i dont know. I for damn sure wouldn't take her  back, but I dont trust that she wants me back... maybe i am paranoid, but i feel a plot going on. I dont know, it is what it is. Family is well... all is well.

Hopefully next time I update it'll be about my awesome fabulous new job!
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Truth
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PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR LIFE FOR A REASON

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real, but only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

 

*sigh*
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Should we just be friends?
Should we draw the line? 
Should we seize the times... take this thing further?
Or should we just pretend... that love ain't closing in...
That I don't recognize, that you dont realize...
Were drawn to, one another, friends or lovers, its time we choose...
Screw what your girls say, what my boys think...
Dont even matter, all that matters now...

Now that we've come this far i need to know whats going to be your position, baby listen 
Tell me where i need to stand in your life.
Now that we've come this far i need to know whats going to be my position, baby listen 
Tell me where i need to stand in your life...

To watch you fly away... like doves do... would crush me... i need you!
This air i breathe, like the tree's and leaves
We go together like hands in glove
So dont pretend, that love aint closing in...
That i don't recognize, that you dont realize... 
That were drawn to one another, friends or lovers, girl we gotta choose right now

Now that we've come this far i need to know whats going to be your position, baby listen 
Tell me where i need to stand in your life.
Now that we've come this far i need to know whats going to be my position, baby listen 
Tell me where i need to stand in your life...

I wanna take this further
I'm talkin' bout commitment
The whole nine girl im wit it, i wanna put a title on this love
Hope you aint feeling pressured, but girl I just cant measure the way I feel about you 
And i love you, and i wanna let you know girl now...

Now that we've come this far i need to know whats going to be your position, baby listen 
Tell me where i need to stand in your life.
Now that we've come this far i need to know whats going to be my position, baby listen 
Tell me where i need to stand in your life...


I saw this man in concert last night... magic
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This doesn't even touch the surface of his performance aspect or his talent in general. Love me some Raheem D.

Updates all around!
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SO! Summer is official here. Hip hip hooray! In speaking with a friend of mine, I realized that my fall, winter, spring has been somewhat dramatic... lol. And I am ready to just get out there and have fun. Cause a little harmless trouble. Experience summer in Chicago. I've met a lot of new people, I've been trying to hang out, rediscover the city. I am enjoying myself so far, and hopefully it's only the beginning!

What does my horoscope for today say?

The moon is in pisces...

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): You keep wondering how you're doing because the response you get from others is difficult to read. They'll be more effusive later in the week. For now, your best indicator comes from a bit of soul-searching.

I like soul searching..


Beyonce Woman Like Me
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Hmmm, been feeling like this A LOT lately. Does any one think they could fall for a woman like me? Besides Erin? lol

John Legend and Estelle - Hey Girl
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This is my life lately...

Ledisi - Alright
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My anthem for the moment...

Yesterday
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How I am feeling at this exact moment...

Ellis - How Would It Be - music video
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Yay for Ellis having a music video!

Jane Child. Don't Want To Fall In Love.
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LOL! I am sure no one remembers this video but me, but ah... memories... lol.

Kelis - Get Along With You
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One of my fav songs by Kelis and very appropriate for Halloween!

I met Gym Class Heroes!
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Bout a 6 months or so ago, I discovered I was a fan of the group Gym Class Heroes (as I tend to do with a lot of groups I like) and began to read up on everything I could about them. My lovely gf (pictured below) was kind enough to purchase tickets for her and I to the concert! I was lucky enough to meet them at an instore signing and then the concert later on that night was AMAZING! Fall out boy rocks too!

Just a few pictures of the instore signing I attended this past weekend. I got free t-shirts, got my CD signed and took photos with the guys! It was really cool.

 


Constantly remix live
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My middle school years!

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